I think a reminder would be a good idea :) I'm note-taking on everything and we'll see what kind of a reminder we can come up with, although I think you have the bones of it.
It is always, always fine to PM a mod. We don't then single that person out and rage at them or anything, promise! We chat, we ask what they meant - because often people don't mean to offend anyone or trigger anyone or mess up etc or there can be crossed wires - and every so often we did amendments to the rules on the profile page and now we have a main rules post. What we are evolves, and a lot of that is about the feedback that we get. Even if things like the comments in all the things friday can't be edited, it would have raised it louder and we would have gone down the road of doing our best to solve so everyone is as happy as possible :)
Re: Friday Posts
It is always, always fine to PM a mod. We don't then single that person out and rage at them or anything, promise! We chat, we ask what they meant - because often people don't mean to offend anyone or trigger anyone or mess up etc or there can be crossed wires - and every so often we did amendments to the rules on the profile page and now we have a main rules post. What we are evolves, and a lot of that is about the feedback that we get. Even if things like the comments in all the things friday can't be edited, it would have raised it louder and we would have gone down the road of doing our best to solve so everyone is as happy as possible :)