It's okay! *epic head patting, with a nice latte on the side* I think I'm learning that taking on too many things at once is a problem, in which case dropping one or two of them is actually problem solving.

As for the WIP issue, I have one that's been on hold for 2.5 years (I still get PMs about it ...) but I stopped feeling guilty about it. The voices just aren't calling me right now. And that's okay.