I tried a mass unscreen for comments on the requests thread, but when I went through them all I still couldn't see yours and I can't see any spam notifications. Then when I follow your link it won't let me expand your comment to read it :S I'm really sorry, sunshine. I hope what cybermathwitch has suggested is okay with you *hugs* and if you ever get any 'marked as spam' or other bizarre meassages do poke a mod and we'll fix it or post it for your or figure out a way around.