And one more thing (starting to FEEL like spam ...)

As someone who knows something about the inner workings of government, the only place where there are real fraternization rules is the military, and then on mission/in the field. At least in the Canadian military I know a number of serving officers who are married to others; as long as they're not in each other's chain of command, no one cares.

In other parts of government, such as the diplomatic service, again they take care to make sure you don't have to report to your Significant Other. The diplomatic service ADORES it when officers are married, because then they only have to pay one set of costs when people relocate around the planet! :-)